Many older people do not know how to react when children ask us about sex, we simply must answer questions in a natural
worth mentioning that after five years begins formation and development, based primarily on its surroundings and associations made from of all the ideas that surround them. This stage is critical and it is time that parents should take to ensure, as far as possible, the better sex education at this time there are numerous sexual questions and doubts, are obviously at the top.
usually is the child who takes the initiative in their doubts. One of the first questions to ask is about their genitals, the differences between boys and girls. Begin to observe themselves, compared with their parents and unconsciously come to the conclusion that human beings are divided into two groups: male and female.
Parents should not be shocked at the first erotic manifestations experienced by children. Many studies have shown that during the bath begins to feel sensations satisfactory or can be caught touching their own bodies.
parents must not be surprised by these events, because among 3 and 6 years starting sexual curiosity. If censorship and punishment, generate feelings of rejection, guilt and fear of his personal life.
is very likely that the child has turned to boredom and complacency have nothing better to do. Never react negatively to these demonstrations, because many sexual repressions cause children in adolescence and adulthood suffering from neurosis and taboos. Not bad for a child to touch. Never scold, or base our education around "that say" other. Always think the best for our son. What we can do is encourage other activities, for distract their attention on other interests.
With regard to questions about children born of a sexual nature or other, parents should pay close attention. Never respond: "These things do not interest you" or "you're too young to know." Our responses must be clear and simple. For example, you could say, "Mom in your body has a special place called the uterus, where children are. Children are growing and feeding on the mother's interior through the umbilical cord. " When we talk about the genitals, you should always use the names, penis and vagina.
Sexuality should stop being a taboo subject, because it is part of life and harmony between couples. Introducing children to the natural mysteries of life, is a wonderful challenge. We should not deprive our children by clear and honest.
Carola Luque
Sexologist and consultant APROPO
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