Hello today I want to comment on how teachers can have one more tool that is able to read the body "body language." Talking with a friend
psychologist told me the important thing to know about it.
She then appointed me as a body Talking, but to be investigating what as body language found in different books.
I am a very good educational tool to achieve mainly interpret and facilitate the dialogue in my classes between those students who are shy or something suspicious.
As a professor of recreation, "RECREATION AND CULTURE WORKSHOP FUN" in high school tour to me was very helpful.
no other intention than to provide this material is that friends and students and made a summary of what I consider most important in the book:
"Body Language" (Author: Allan Pease)
I send you a hug.
body movements Research on human communication often have neglected the individual itself. However, it is obvious that any of us can do a rough analysis of the character of an individual based on his way to get around - hard, brash, vigorous, and the way they do represent a fairly stable trait of his personality.
Take for example the simple act of walking. This fact alone can tell us many things. The man who usually hard to walk footwork will give us the impression of being an individual decision. If you walk light, may seem impatient or aggressive, although with the same momentum as more slowly, more homogeneous, we will think that this is a patient and persevering person. Another will with little momentum, as if crossing a patch of lawn try not to ruin it and give us a sense of insecurity.
The fact exaggerated hips lift gives impression of confidence in himself, if at the same time there is a slight rotation, we are dealing with someone jaunty and carefree. If this is added a bit more pace, more emphasis and a guitar-shaped figure, the way we walk and a woman, makes men turn down the street.
This represents the "how" of body movement, in contrast to the 'what' not the act of walking but the way it is, not the act of shaking hands, but the way to do so.
The ratio between gesture and posture is a way of assessing the degree of participation of an individual in a given situation. A man who vigorously shaking the arms do not seem convincing if their movements do not extend to the body.
What matters is the ratio of postural movements and gestures, rather than the sheer number of postural movements. A man may be sitting very still, listening, but if he does move his whole body, seem to be paying much attention, much more than if you were constantly moving, constantly fiddling perhaps some part of your body.
bodily attitudes reflect the attitudes and orientations persist in the individual. A person can be stationary or sitting forward actively, or sunk in itself, and so on. These positions or postures, and variations or lack of them, represent the way you relate to others and guides.
Is there a way to learn to control the quality of movement? It would be a centipede problem. If you ever start thinking what leg should move first, it would be completely paralyzed. "
The palm
The gesture of displaying the palms of the hands has always been associated with truth, honesty, loyalty and deference. Many oaths are made by placing the palm of your hand on the heart, the hand is raised with the palm out when someone says in a court, tribunal members before the Bible is held with the left hand and raises his right palm.
In everyday life, people use two basic palm positions: one is the palm upwards in the position of the beggar who asks for money or food, and the other is the palm down as if it were contain, to keep something. When someone wants to be frank and honest, one or both palms up toward the other person says something like "I'll be frank."
When someone begins to trust another, will expose the palms or parts of them. It is an unconscious gesture like almost all the body language, a gesture that provides it is the feeling or the feeling that they are telling the truth.
There are three main control gestures with palms, palm up (already mentioned), the palm down and closed with a finger pointing in one direction.
palm up is a non-threatening gesture that denotes submission.
thumb gestures
In palmistry, the thumbs point to the strength of character and ego. Using your thumbs on nonverbal expression confirms this. Are used to express domain, superiority or even aggression thumbs gestures are secondary, part of a group of gestures. Represent positive expressions commonly used in typical positions of the manager "cold" to his subordinates.
man courting a woman employs it before and are also common among people of prestige, high status and well dressed. People who wear new clothes and make them more attractive gestures with their thumbs as they use old-fashioned clothes.
thumbs, which express superiority, are more evident when a person is giving a contradictory verbal message.
thumbs often out of the pockets, sometimes in the back pockets, as if to hide the prevailing attitude of the person. Aggressive or dominant women also use this gesture.
The showing thumbs often added to this balancing act on the feet to give the impression of greater height. Another
known position is that of arms folded with thumbs up. It is a double signal for the arms indicate a defensive or negative, while the thumbs are a superior attitude. The person using this double gesture usually gesturing with their thumbs and, when standing, balancing on feet.
The thumb can also be used as a gesture of ridicule when he points to another person. The thumb thus pointing is irritating to most women, especially when the gesture makes a man. The gesture of shaking the thumb is much less common in women, although sometimes point and their husbands or people who do not like
The mouth guard
Cover your mouth is one of the gestures is so obvious in adults and children . The hand covers the mouth and the thumb is pressed against the cheek when the brain commands in a subconscious way, as to eliminate the misleading words just said. Sometimes the gesture is covering the mouth with some fingers or a fist, but the meaning is the same. If the person speaking uses this gesture, denotes that you are telling a lie. Touching the nose
The act of touching the nose is essentially a disguised version of touching mouth. May consist of several smooth friction under the nose or may be a quick and almost imperceptible touch.
An explanation of the origin of the gesture of touching the nose is that when the mind is negative thinking, the subconscious instructs the hand to cover your mouth, but in the last minute, so it is not so obvious gesture, hand leaves the mouth and nose touch quickly.
Another explanation is that lying causes itching in sensitive nerve endings in the nose and, to pass, it is necessary to rub.
gestures with his arms crossed
Hiding behind a barrier is a normal human response that we learn at an early age to protect ourselves.
When crossing one or both arms over his chest is a barrier that, in essence, is the attempt to leave without us the pending threat or undesirable circumstances. When a person has a defensive, negative or nervous, crosses his arms and shows so it feels threatened.
standard idle gesture
The standard is universal gesture and expressed the same defensiveness or negative almost everywhere. Often seen when a person is among strangers in public meetings, queues, cafeterias, elevators or any place where you feel unsafe.
When the listener folds his arms not only have negative thoughts about the speaker but also pays less attention what he says. Experienced speakers know that this gesture demonstrates the urgent need to break the ice to make listeners more receptive attitude to take, for example. Catch a book, ask questions to participate, and so on. Crossing arms
reinforced
If, in addition to having crossed arms, fists closed person, signals are defense and hostility. This group of gestures is sometimes combined with clenched teeth and red face. In this case the attack may be imminent verbal or physical.
The act of taking arms
This style is commonly seen in people who are in the waiting room of a doctor or a dentist, or where travel by air for the first time and wait for takeoff. Is a negative attitude of restraint, as if to restrain the arms, not for leaving the body exposed.
partial crossing arms
Another version of the barrier is holding hands. This attitude is common in people who have to face the public when they receive a title, a prize, or have to say a few words. It's like reliving the feeling of security that is felt when you were a child and the parents took him by the hand in situations of fear. Crossing
concealed arms
The people who continually use is exposed to the public, politicians, vendors. they do not want the public to realize that are nervous or insecure. Instead of crossing directly over the other arm, a hand holding a bag, touch the clock, the cuff of his shirt, etc. This will form the barrier and achieved a sense of security.
gestures with his legs crossing legs crossed legs
as folded arms indicate the possible existence of a negative or defensive attitude. Initially, the purpose of crossing his arms over his chest was to defend the heart and the upper body. Crossing your legs is an attempt to defend the genital area. Crossing arms
indicates a more negative attitude to cross their legs, and is more evident. Be careful when interpreting gestures across the legs of a woman, and many have been taught that "just feel the ladies."
There are two basic ways of crossing the legs while sitting: the standard crossing and crossing the legs drawn a 4.
fundamental positions of the head
There are three basic positions of the head. The head up is what takes the person who has a neutral attitude about what they're listening. When the head is tilted to one side means a demonstration of interest. When the head is tilted down notes that the attitude is negative and even opposed.
two hands behind the head
This gesture is typical of accountants, lawyers sales managers or people in general who are confident in themselves, or dominate, or they feel superior in some way. As if to say in "maybe one day get to be as smart as me." It's a gesture that irritates many people. The possibility of faking
A question often heard is: "Can we pretend in body language?"
The general answer is "no", because the lack of consistency would be evident among the main gestures, the microseñales body and spoken language. For example: sight palms are associated with honesty but when the faker open palms out and smiles as tells a lie, betray him microgestos.
pupils may contract or raise an eyebrow, or a corner may tremble, and these signals contradict the gesture of displaying the palms of the hands and smile "sincere." The result is that the listener tends not to believe what the Preacher is saying.
The human mind seems to possess a fail-safe mechanism that records the deviation when it receives a series of incongruent non-verbal messages. But there are some cases that simulates a body language expressly to gain certain advantages. Analysis of the sign language
More than a million years that man began to communicate through body language, but only has been studied scientifically in the last twenty years. Their study was popularized during the 70's. Charles
Chapplin and many silent film actors were pioneers of the arts in nonverbal communication, it was the only form of communication available on the screen.
In its purest form, the mime is communicating with an audience without the help of dialogues, songs and spoken narrative. Movements, gestures and expressions of the actors drive the action and tell us all we need to know about your feelings and motives.
Young people are tired of hearing politicians talk about peace, equality and honesty, and then the news we see poverty, fury, fanaticism, war. From this comes a distrust of words.
The clothing and hair have become very important indications about the ethical and political attitudes. We have moved towards a more visual period where what you see is more important than what we read and what is directly experienced has much more value than what is learned at second hand.
conclusion we can note that gestures are a matter of culture, are something that we learn unconsciously to her surrounding.
An example is the coldness of the British regarding the expression of love. At the other extreme, are Latinos, we express our emotions usually through kissing, hugging and other types of tactile expressions. Although not considered to Americans as cold as the British, an American child over ten years does not kiss or hug his father.
Communication is a process of participation, an activity that contains a complex and heterogeneous. Studying how a company communicates to study the system of ethical principles of cooperation, global representations of gestures collective myths of fairy tales, of kinship, religious rites, research strategies, the mechanisms of repression , of artistic, philosophical speculation, the organization of power, institutions and constitutions, the laws which govern a community, a people, a nation or state.
All these elements are studied by observing the way people communicate.
psychologist told me the important thing to know about it.
She then appointed me as a body Talking, but to be investigating what as body language found in different books.
I am a very good educational tool to achieve mainly interpret and facilitate the dialogue in my classes between those students who are shy or something suspicious.
As a professor of recreation, "RECREATION AND CULTURE WORKSHOP FUN" in high school tour to me was very helpful.
no other intention than to provide this material is that friends and students and made a summary of what I consider most important in the book:
"Body Language" (Author: Allan Pease)
I send you a hug.
body movements Research on human communication often have neglected the individual itself. However, it is obvious that any of us can do a rough analysis of the character of an individual based on his way to get around - hard, brash, vigorous, and the way they do represent a fairly stable trait of his personality.
Take for example the simple act of walking. This fact alone can tell us many things. The man who usually hard to walk footwork will give us the impression of being an individual decision. If you walk light, may seem impatient or aggressive, although with the same momentum as more slowly, more homogeneous, we will think that this is a patient and persevering person. Another will with little momentum, as if crossing a patch of lawn try not to ruin it and give us a sense of insecurity.
The fact exaggerated hips lift gives impression of confidence in himself, if at the same time there is a slight rotation, we are dealing with someone jaunty and carefree. If this is added a bit more pace, more emphasis and a guitar-shaped figure, the way we walk and a woman, makes men turn down the street.
This represents the "how" of body movement, in contrast to the 'what' not the act of walking but the way it is, not the act of shaking hands, but the way to do so.
The ratio between gesture and posture is a way of assessing the degree of participation of an individual in a given situation. A man who vigorously shaking the arms do not seem convincing if their movements do not extend to the body.
What matters is the ratio of postural movements and gestures, rather than the sheer number of postural movements. A man may be sitting very still, listening, but if he does move his whole body, seem to be paying much attention, much more than if you were constantly moving, constantly fiddling perhaps some part of your body.
bodily attitudes reflect the attitudes and orientations persist in the individual. A person can be stationary or sitting forward actively, or sunk in itself, and so on. These positions or postures, and variations or lack of them, represent the way you relate to others and guides.
Is there a way to learn to control the quality of movement? It would be a centipede problem. If you ever start thinking what leg should move first, it would be completely paralyzed. "
The palm
The gesture of displaying the palms of the hands has always been associated with truth, honesty, loyalty and deference. Many oaths are made by placing the palm of your hand on the heart, the hand is raised with the palm out when someone says in a court, tribunal members before the Bible is held with the left hand and raises his right palm.
In everyday life, people use two basic palm positions: one is the palm upwards in the position of the beggar who asks for money or food, and the other is the palm down as if it were contain, to keep something. When someone wants to be frank and honest, one or both palms up toward the other person says something like "I'll be frank."
When someone begins to trust another, will expose the palms or parts of them. It is an unconscious gesture like almost all the body language, a gesture that provides it is the feeling or the feeling that they are telling the truth.
There are three main control gestures with palms, palm up (already mentioned), the palm down and closed with a finger pointing in one direction.
palm up is a non-threatening gesture that denotes submission.
thumb gestures
In palmistry, the thumbs point to the strength of character and ego. Using your thumbs on nonverbal expression confirms this. Are used to express domain, superiority or even aggression thumbs gestures are secondary, part of a group of gestures. Represent positive expressions commonly used in typical positions of the manager "cold" to his subordinates.
man courting a woman employs it before and are also common among people of prestige, high status and well dressed. People who wear new clothes and make them more attractive gestures with their thumbs as they use old-fashioned clothes.
thumbs, which express superiority, are more evident when a person is giving a contradictory verbal message.
thumbs often out of the pockets, sometimes in the back pockets, as if to hide the prevailing attitude of the person. Aggressive or dominant women also use this gesture.
The showing thumbs often added to this balancing act on the feet to give the impression of greater height. Another
known position is that of arms folded with thumbs up. It is a double signal for the arms indicate a defensive or negative, while the thumbs are a superior attitude. The person using this double gesture usually gesturing with their thumbs and, when standing, balancing on feet.
The thumb can also be used as a gesture of ridicule when he points to another person. The thumb thus pointing is irritating to most women, especially when the gesture makes a man. The gesture of shaking the thumb is much less common in women, although sometimes point and their husbands or people who do not like
The mouth guard
Cover your mouth is one of the gestures is so obvious in adults and children . The hand covers the mouth and the thumb is pressed against the cheek when the brain commands in a subconscious way, as to eliminate the misleading words just said. Sometimes the gesture is covering the mouth with some fingers or a fist, but the meaning is the same. If the person speaking uses this gesture, denotes that you are telling a lie. Touching the nose
The act of touching the nose is essentially a disguised version of touching mouth. May consist of several smooth friction under the nose or may be a quick and almost imperceptible touch.
An explanation of the origin of the gesture of touching the nose is that when the mind is negative thinking, the subconscious instructs the hand to cover your mouth, but in the last minute, so it is not so obvious gesture, hand leaves the mouth and nose touch quickly.
Another explanation is that lying causes itching in sensitive nerve endings in the nose and, to pass, it is necessary to rub.
gestures with his arms crossed
Hiding behind a barrier is a normal human response that we learn at an early age to protect ourselves.
When crossing one or both arms over his chest is a barrier that, in essence, is the attempt to leave without us the pending threat or undesirable circumstances. When a person has a defensive, negative or nervous, crosses his arms and shows so it feels threatened.
standard idle gesture
The standard is universal gesture and expressed the same defensiveness or negative almost everywhere. Often seen when a person is among strangers in public meetings, queues, cafeterias, elevators or any place where you feel unsafe.
When the listener folds his arms not only have negative thoughts about the speaker but also pays less attention what he says. Experienced speakers know that this gesture demonstrates the urgent need to break the ice to make listeners more receptive attitude to take, for example. Catch a book, ask questions to participate, and so on. Crossing arms
reinforced
If, in addition to having crossed arms, fists closed person, signals are defense and hostility. This group of gestures is sometimes combined with clenched teeth and red face. In this case the attack may be imminent verbal or physical.
The act of taking arms
This style is commonly seen in people who are in the waiting room of a doctor or a dentist, or where travel by air for the first time and wait for takeoff. Is a negative attitude of restraint, as if to restrain the arms, not for leaving the body exposed.
partial crossing arms
Another version of the barrier is holding hands. This attitude is common in people who have to face the public when they receive a title, a prize, or have to say a few words. It's like reliving the feeling of security that is felt when you were a child and the parents took him by the hand in situations of fear. Crossing
concealed arms
The people who continually use is exposed to the public, politicians, vendors. they do not want the public to realize that are nervous or insecure. Instead of crossing directly over the other arm, a hand holding a bag, touch the clock, the cuff of his shirt, etc. This will form the barrier and achieved a sense of security.
gestures with his legs crossing legs crossed legs
as folded arms indicate the possible existence of a negative or defensive attitude. Initially, the purpose of crossing his arms over his chest was to defend the heart and the upper body. Crossing your legs is an attempt to defend the genital area. Crossing arms
indicates a more negative attitude to cross their legs, and is more evident. Be careful when interpreting gestures across the legs of a woman, and many have been taught that "just feel the ladies."
There are two basic ways of crossing the legs while sitting: the standard crossing and crossing the legs drawn a 4.
fundamental positions of the head
There are three basic positions of the head. The head up is what takes the person who has a neutral attitude about what they're listening. When the head is tilted to one side means a demonstration of interest. When the head is tilted down notes that the attitude is negative and even opposed.
two hands behind the head
This gesture is typical of accountants, lawyers sales managers or people in general who are confident in themselves, or dominate, or they feel superior in some way. As if to say in "maybe one day get to be as smart as me." It's a gesture that irritates many people. The possibility of faking
A question often heard is: "Can we pretend in body language?"
The general answer is "no", because the lack of consistency would be evident among the main gestures, the microseñales body and spoken language. For example: sight palms are associated with honesty but when the faker open palms out and smiles as tells a lie, betray him microgestos.
pupils may contract or raise an eyebrow, or a corner may tremble, and these signals contradict the gesture of displaying the palms of the hands and smile "sincere." The result is that the listener tends not to believe what the Preacher is saying.
The human mind seems to possess a fail-safe mechanism that records the deviation when it receives a series of incongruent non-verbal messages. But there are some cases that simulates a body language expressly to gain certain advantages. Analysis of the sign language
More than a million years that man began to communicate through body language, but only has been studied scientifically in the last twenty years. Their study was popularized during the 70's. Charles
Chapplin and many silent film actors were pioneers of the arts in nonverbal communication, it was the only form of communication available on the screen.
In its purest form, the mime is communicating with an audience without the help of dialogues, songs and spoken narrative. Movements, gestures and expressions of the actors drive the action and tell us all we need to know about your feelings and motives.
Young people are tired of hearing politicians talk about peace, equality and honesty, and then the news we see poverty, fury, fanaticism, war. From this comes a distrust of words.
The clothing and hair have become very important indications about the ethical and political attitudes. We have moved towards a more visual period where what you see is more important than what we read and what is directly experienced has much more value than what is learned at second hand.
conclusion we can note that gestures are a matter of culture, are something that we learn unconsciously to her surrounding.
An example is the coldness of the British regarding the expression of love. At the other extreme, are Latinos, we express our emotions usually through kissing, hugging and other types of tactile expressions. Although not considered to Americans as cold as the British, an American child over ten years does not kiss or hug his father.
Communication is a process of participation, an activity that contains a complex and heterogeneous. Studying how a company communicates to study the system of ethical principles of cooperation, global representations of gestures collective myths of fairy tales, of kinship, religious rites, research strategies, the mechanisms of repression , of artistic, philosophical speculation, the organization of power, institutions and constitutions, the laws which govern a community, a people, a nation or state.
All these elements are studied by observing the way people communicate.
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